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Coming soon on iOS

Stay connected with people you care about

Tend helps you nurture your relationships with gentle reminders and suggested messages — so no one falls through the cracks.

Tend App

Tend

Your relationships, nurtured

JD

Reach out to Jane

2 weeks overdue

🎂

Mom's birthday

Tomorrow

Everything you need to stay close

Tend gives you simple, thoughtful tools to nurture the relationships that matter most.

Smart Reminders

Set custom cadences for each contact. Tend gently nudges you when it's time to reach out — no more guilt about losing touch.

Suggested Messages

Not sure what to say? Tend generates thoughtful, personalized message suggestions based on your relationship history.

Relationship Insights

Track your interactions and see patterns in your relationships. Understand who you're staying close with and who needs attention.

Birthday Reminders

Never miss an important date again. Tend keeps track of birthdays and milestones so you can show up when it matters.

Simple by design

Three steps to never lose touch with the people who matter.

1

Add your contacts

Import from your phone or add people manually. Tag them with how you know them and how often you'd like to stay in touch.

2

Set your cadence

Choose how often you want to reach out — weekly, monthly, or custom. Tend respects your pace; no pressure, just gentle nudges.

3

Get gentle reminders

When it's time to connect, Tend sends a friendly reminder with suggested messages. Just tap and send — staying close has never been easier.

Start tending to your relationships

Download Tend for free and start strengthening the connections that matter most. Your first 10 contacts are always free.

Requires iOS 17 or later. Free with optional premium upgrade.