Stay connected with people you care about
Tend helps you nurture your relationships with gentle reminders and AI-powered messages shaped by your tone, your notes, and your history together — so no one falls through the cracks.
Everything you need to stay close
Tend gives you simple, thoughtful tools to nurture the relationships that matter most.
Smart Reminders
Set custom cadences for each contact. Tend gently nudges you when it's time to reach out — no more guilt about losing touch.
AI-Powered Messages
Never stare at a blank text box again. Tend generates personalized messages using your notes, recent interactions, and chosen tone — whether it's casual, heartfelt, or funny. Powered by AI that understands each relationship uniquely.
Relationship Insights
Track your interactions and see patterns in your relationships. Understand who you're staying close with and who needs attention.
Birthday Reminders
Never miss an important date again. Tend keeps track of birthdays and milestones so you can show up when it matters.
Remember Names
Met someone new at the gym or in your building? Jot down their name and a quick note before you forget. Organize people into groups so you always remember who's who.
Custom Reminders
Sometimes you want to reach out, just not right now. Schedule a one-time nudge for any contact — pick a date and time, and Tend reminds you when it's ready. Your regular check-in cadence stays untouched.
Gift Ideas
Never forget a thoughtful gift again. Each person has their own gift idea list — jot down inspiration the moment it strikes, reorder by priority, and check things off as gifts are given. No more scrambling before birthdays or holidays.
Simple by design
Three steps to never lose touch with the people who matter.
Add your contacts
Import from your phone or add people manually. Tag them with how you know them and how often you'd like to stay in touch.
Set your cadence
Choose how often you want to reach out — weekly, monthly, or custom. Tend respects your pace; no pressure, just gentle nudges.
Get gentle reminders
When it's time to connect, Tend sends a friendly reminder with a personalized message ready to go. Premium users get AI-crafted messages shaped by your notes, recent conversations, and the tone you want — just tap and send.
Reach out to Jane
2 weeks overdue
Mom's birthday
Tomorrow
Start tending to your relationships
Download Tend for free — reminders and message templates to get you started. Upgrade to premium for AI messages crafted from your notes, interactions, and preferred tone, plus unlimited contacts.
Requires iOS 17 or later. Free with optional premium upgrade.